Irresistible Influence Cards

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Price GBP : 13.75

"It was UNBELIEVABLE - I Never Knew I Could Increase My Personal Influence Skills That Dramatically!"

Like me, you may already be aware that the ability to influence people is at the heart of successful communication.

I have always been fascinated by how some people have a magical influence over others. It seemed they had a special talent. When I discovered NLP (neuro-linguistic-programming), I was stunned to discover much much influence could be earned, just through the use of language.

Maybe those people did have a special talent .... but it's one that you can have too.

So I set out to to become great at using language to achieve outstanding results in both my personal and professional pursuits.

Over the years I’ve found that we are always influencing other people. It turns out that you cannot, not communicate. This is true whether you’re trying to convince someone to buy you a coffee or persuading a client to pay the deposit on a private jet.

Since you’re influencing people all the time anyway, doesn’t it make sense that you take the time to learn how to influence people with more precision and elegance?

I must confess that while NLP boasts a vast array of tools and techniques for helping people, what initially drew my attention was the idea that you can use the way you say things to influence people.

And while I love seeing how broadly NLP can change people's lives for the better, I am repeatedly reminded that learning how to use language effectively is one of the best investments a person can make.

There are three stages of learning to go through to master the persuasive language patterns thoroughly:

  • learn how to formulate language patterns for myself.
  • wire these patterns in to the unconscious mind – the part of the mind responsible for automatic responses and behaviour.
  • practice these patterns in such a way that I could see the responses of the people I was using them on.

Perhaps the best way to do these 3 things is to play games.

You could read books and listen to CDs to learn them. But experience shows that playing cards is the fastest and easiest way to wire the patterns into your unconscious mind so that you have them instantly at your disposal.

Here at Salad, we’ve been using playing cards with hypnotic language patterns on them for years to teach people on our NLP Training Course to use embedded commands for covert communication.

What can you achieve by learning the patterns on these Irresistible Influence Cards?

Imagine being able to:

  • Learn the patterns of persuasion quickly and at an unconscious level.
  • Become a far more influential communicator.
  • Close more deals, make more sales and persuade more people.
  • Get people to want what you want them to do.
  • Gain an edge over your competition.
  • Have fun while you learn to be irresistibly influential.

See, one of the things we’ve all got available to us is an unconscious language faculty.

The fact that you’ve learned to use language in your own way at an unconscious level means you can learn to use language more effectively to get the influence results you want.

As you begin to use the patterns on these cards consistently, sooner or later you will notice yourself using the influential language effortlessly.

Here's just some of what you are going to learn

  • Ways of linking ideas that sounds so logical that it is hard to resist. The unconscious mind responds to a logic of its own, learn how to use that to your advantage.
  • A way to build consensus and credibility – one of the core principles of influence.
  • The phrase that gets a customer to make the decision to buy now. A deceptively simple yet effective and quirky use of language.
  • The best ways I have found to get a customer imagining already using your product or service, thereby increasing the chances they will buy it.
  • A way to get someone to take action now. If you need a subtle way to get people to make a decision then this simple phrase will increase the likelihood of them acting immediately.
  • A simple yet elegant way to overturn objections.
  • Ways to build agreement and trust so that people naturally move in the direction you want them to go.
  • How to get someone else to say what you want to. Use this technique and you will also sound credible in the process.
  • A simple way to end a sentence that makes it difficult to disagree with.
  • How to find people’s “hot buttons” so that you can package your presentation in a way that has maximum impact on the person you’re influencing.
  • Methods to get clients focusing on what you want them to do.
  • A cunning and simple way to phrase a request so that the person is more likely to do it.
  • Quite possibly the funniest way to pre-empt a client’s objection and thereby overturn it before it comes up.
  • How to say something to a person without really saying it.
  • And many more elegant verbal techniques for influencing people

Tips for Rapid Learning

  • Play makes learning fast and fun, so use games like Solitaire, Slapjack or Persuasive Eights (rules included).
  • Certain phrases are in italics. You can 'analogue mark' these phrases (E.g. with a gesture, a touch, lowered voice tone, a raised eyebrow etc.) to send commands to a person's unconscious mind.
  • Choose simple phrases (E.g. work with our company) to fill in the blanks in the patterns on the cards.
  • End your suggestions with a descending voice tone for increased authority.
  • Start reading the pattern on the card aloud, even if you don't know what you're going to say to complete it. Word selection is an unconscious function, so your unconscious may begin to fill in the blanks!
  • Set a goal for the game (E.g. for persuade someone to do a specific task or action). Then allow your unconscious to help reflect this in your language.

And who is this for?

I'll start (as usual) by saying who it isn't for - it isn't for people who just want the theory but don't want to get their hands dirty. Only purchase this product if you want to develop real skills. People who work in the area of change or are studying it will obviously benefit, including NLP Practitioners, therapists, coaches, trainers, doctors, consultants and the like.

What do you get?

Each set of cards includes:

  • 52 casino-quality game cards with the patterns you will learn.
  • Examples of how to use them.
  • Commentary about how and why these work the way they do.
  • Eight top tips for using the cards and the patterns on them, building your unconscious ability and maximising your learning speed.
  • Full instructions for a simple game you can play with others to 'wire in' the learnings at a deep level, and make these questions an unconscious and elegant part of your coaching repertoire (you can also play Solitaire to practice the cards by yourself).
  • 18 examples of client phrases for you to practice with, from limiting beliefs to aspirational goals.